Kiss of the Romantic
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TOP TEN WAYS TO SAY I LOVE YOU
You
can say the words “I Love You” often and in any way you can think
of, but; these words will not have any meaning unless they are
backed by appropriate and consistent actions! So, to say that you
love someone is a good thing in itself but to get the true intent
across to the object of your affections, you will have to
show that what you say
is a sincere and heartfelt emotion. Everyday interactions are the
true test for your spoken affection. With these thoughts in mind
here is a better title for this page.
TOP TEN WAYS TO SHOW
THAT YOU LOVE SOMEONE
10. FLIRTING. A good way
to show your affection is to interact and
flirt with your partner.
This is a fun activity that can include verbally suggestive
comments, facial expressions of mirthful endearment, and little
physical contacts that suggest an amorous intent. The whole idea is
that you are displaying clues that you are enjoying the company of
your partner and that he or she is desirable.
9.
YOUR APPEARANCE. If you
really love someone you will naturally want to be appealing to that
person at all times! Appealing, in a physical sense, involves
grooming, washing, dressing, and smiling! These activities hint at
your respect as well as your love for someone.
8.
MASSAGE. If you truly
love someone, you will want that person to feel good. Massage is one
of the best ways to help your love to feel good. It will melt away
everyday stresses and relax not only muscles but also the mind. The
recipient of a good massage will know your love is real because you
have taken the time to learn proper massage techniques and insist
upon applying that skill every time your partner shows evidence of
needing it.
7.
PAMPERING. Thoughtful
acts of kindness and affection will reassure your partner that he or
she is truly loved. Prepare a bubble bath, fix a favorite drink,
take on what is normally your partner’s chore occasionally, and make
efforts to assure comfort in your partner are just a few examples of
pampering. Message received; “I am loved”!
6.
THOUGHTFULLNESS. Do you
actually listen attentively as your partner speaks? Did you catch
that little clue between the lines? Do you always remember that
anniversary or holiday? Do you perceive when your partner is sad or
upset? Do you try to comfort him or her when they are sad or upset?
Yes to these questions says that you are truly in love.
5.
ACTS OF LOVE. Pleasant
surprises, individually appropriate gifts of “just because”, love
notes discovered in hidden places, flowers or a bottle of wine
presented with a smile, an occasional “quickie” offer, special
“teddy” surprises, a big long hug for no reason at all are little
acts of love to be cherished by both partners in a loving
relationship.
4.
ENCOURAGEMENT. As an
equal partner, do you
encourage your significant other to succeed in their dreams and
aspirations? Do you boost their self esteem and tell them that there
is no doubt as to their ability to succeed? Do you offer help as
proof of your support? These are the things of love!
3.
COMPLIMENTS. Are you on
the lookout for sincere reasons to compliment your sweetie? Little
things like: “that was well said”, or “you are so thoughtful”, or “I
love your new hairstyle”, or “you smell very nice”, or even “hi good
looking” are endearing things to say when love is in your heart.
2.
TENDERNESS. To gently
run your fingers through your partner’s hair, look deeply into their
eyes, touch his or her cheek, or hold hands as you speak intimately
to your loved one is to demonstrate your love in a very strong
manner. It’s the little things that prove your true love, just like
in the song “It’s in his kiss”.