REVITALIZE
Your romance can become exciting again, and it should not be difficult to do. It only takes one partner to make the effort and the other will soon join in your effort. This is not to say that love is no longer present in your lives, but the expression of it has suffered. Wait for a time when the two of you are alone, having dinner at a restaurant for example. Then just say to your partner that you miss the electricity you both once shared, the romance filled with excited anticipation of private moments together. Tell him or her that you feel that life is too short to not have a vibrant and exciting romantic relationship, and our love for each other is not being expressed often enough.
Say to him or her that we both need to engage the other often with complements, encouragement, engaging communication, little gifts that show you are thinking of him/her, good-natured banter, a well-groomed and playfully sexy demeanor, as well as imaginative dates and plenty of sexual rendezvous. Ask him or her if they agree that these goals can be mutual.
Agree together that taking little steps toward revitalizing your romance is the most practical plan. Type out, print, and laminate two copies of the list from the above “discuss how” paragraph. Keep one in his wallet and one in her purse for convenient reference. Ask yourselves; who is the most important person in my life? Should this person not be the object of my thoughts most of the time? If you put into practice the answer to these two questions, then you are well on your way to revitalizing your romance!
Ladies remember that even the smallest complement will stroke a guys’ ego and his love for you!
Try to give words of encouragement for any of your sweethearts’ efforts.
Read the paper and watch some news to keep up on current events. Share your thoughts with your romance partner to keep an intelligent dialog going. Share any amusing stories you may have heard recently.
Utilize the web for ideas on how to show your partner that you are thinking of him or her. Little gifts that are specific to your partners’ likes can be a powerful turn-on. I highly suggest you use the “Workshop #1” on this website to help both of you in this area. Use the “links to other romantic web sites” on our sidebar for more ideas. An occasional love note or poem will also go far to revitalize your romance.
If you have a pet name for your lover, use it! Make your love-connection stronger with little sexual teases. Utilize endearing banter; refer to your partner with relevant terms such as: little ears, or hot lips, or any reference to an endearing physical trait.
Good grooming is a must to revitalize your romance! Not only will you look good to your lover, but you will feel good about yourself too. Likewise a good sense of humor combined with an impishly confident sexual demeanor will have your lover forever smiling!
You men out there need to romance your mate with dates! They don’t have to be expensive ones all the time. Go to a playground and swing or slide together. Walk on a nature trail. If you are short of ideas you can download great date ideas from our “romantic redeemables” on this web site. Use our sidebar link to other romantic web sites for more ideas.
Both partners should seek more opportunities to express your physical love, even if it means an occasional “quickie”. Give your lover an occasional “intimate” or “red hot” romance redeemable while you are on one of your weekend dates (they are available on this web site). The recipient will want to rush right home in anticipation of redeeming it. They are unique and relationship-engaging gifts of your love.