Kiss Of The Romantic   Phraseology

   This list of phrases were taken from this websites' statistics utility. We have decided to choose certain search phrases that found their way to Kiss Of The Romantic.com and answer, expand upon, or otherwise guess what the searcher was looking for. Details, or more information is what we believe these searchers were seeking. We will attempt to give them at least our interpretation of that.

what to make a guy do sexually when he loses a bet

   A better question would be "What things will really turn you on regarding what to make your guy do after he looses a bet with you?" You really should consider this question before the bet is made so that no conflicts arise. Do you wish to savor your newfound power over him and maybe humiliate him a little bit? You could give him a chance to see things from your point of view with a feminine touch of costume and makeup. Maybe make him perform oral sex on a large dildo as you watch and encourage his techniques. Or, make him masturbate as you watch, then order him to lick up his semen and swallow it. Some may prefer to compel their bet loser to be their oral slave and make you orgasm multiple times. Likewise, some women may be titillated with the idea of strapping on a dildo to reverse roles for a time (if you are new to this you should research proper methods so as not to do any damage). You could order him to perform things on you (massage, manicure, pedicure, intercourse the way you like it for example), or you could order him to do things to himself while you watch if you like that sort of thing. Some form of bondage can be fun. Another method is to make him submit to some sexy stuff that you perform on him like teasing and mild sex torture. Just give yourself some time to think about what you like or would like to test to see if it floats your boat.

sex slave for a day bet

   This type of bet is one of the best because the winner has an entire day to experiment with all sorts of sexual fun. You don't have to declare what you get if you win, you can just improvise as you go. The loser of the bet is compelled to comply with all commands given by the bet winning sex master. Things to try can be: spanking, blindfolding, restraints, role playing, begging, orgasmic marathons, teasing, lap dances, pampering, massages, adult toy use, etc. A winning female could handcuff her guy and make him watch xxx movies as a pre-torture/tease. Or she could put a collar and leash on him and offer treats to him if he performs to her satisfaction. She could declare that he play-act that he is a gigolo and pay him for each of her sexual requests. A male winner could give his new slave a new identity and personality. A winner could even command his or her slave to reveal what the slave would do if he/ she were the winner of the bet. Once these facts are known, the master could use those wishes in reverse. As you can see, your fun is limited only by your imagination.!

fun sexual bets to make with your girl

   Men are visual creatures and many are interested in giving their lady the best orgasms ever. As such, you guys may wish to declare the following scenario if he wins the bet. First he will remove all of her clothes while he primes her libido with sexy verbal compliments of her charms. Next have her get comfortable on a bed and begin to manipulate her clitoris with the goal of having multiple back-to back orgasms. As she works on her button you will stimulate her anus with lubricated fingers while simultaneously teasing her nipples with your other hand. To make complete her stimulation, you could also slather her neck with kisses or give her ears lots of love-nibbles. After you are satisfied with her awesome orgasms she will perform oral sex on you while continuing to rub her clitoris. Her excitement will likely cause you to explode in a very short time.

sexiest romantic games

   This one is easy, just click on the following link and you will have what we think are the sexiest romantic games. It is all a matter of personal taste but "Smirk N Smock" is truly a fun game. Games

romantic coupon ideas for husband

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romantic but not too sexual bet ideas

   Couples who wish to engage in betting for romantic winnings will likely get some ideas from our workshop #21 (Pampering List for Him) and workshop #22 (Pampering List for Her). Another good source of ideas for romantic and not too sexual winnings can be found in our free romantic coupons for him and her booklets. Massage scenarios such as  a full body massage, or a foot massage can be your bet winnings, or you can define your ultimate date as your bet win (write down the details before the wager). Likewise, a romantic gift that you wish your partner to buy for you can also be your winning bet. One more suggestion is to check out our Romantic Ideas page to look for your "not too sexual" bet ideas.

make a romance coupon

   If you know your way around Microsoft Publisher you can make a romance coupon from scratch or use one of their templates. There is an easier way though. Just go to our "Kiss Of The Romantic Forum" at the top of our home page and tell us what you want your coupon to say and we will create one for you and post it for free at the bottom of our coupon page! If you do not wish to use our forum you can simply send your idea to us by e-mail. Send to: webmaster@kissoftheromantic.com

sexy massage mitten

   There is no better way to show your love to and pamper your partner. A mink massage mitten will take him or her into ecstasy-land! Just remember the recipient will not want you to stop! One real good thing is that you will find a way to get your turn! Chinchilla Massage Glove/Mitten (Double Sided)

girls hypnotized by lovers for sex

   This is a great idea for a sexual wager. You guys out there could set this scenario up as your bet winnings. She will engage in a role-playing /fantasy where she will become hypnotized by her man and perform all of his hypnotic commands if he wins the bet!

sexual teasing pleasures

   The energy of the sexual tease is like no other thrill. Being goosed on the anus by your partner as he or she passes you by not only gets your blood pumping, but also your imagination. Aha!, you think, he or she is feeling frisky, what can I expect next? The skilled tease will hold off and act like nothing ever happened for awhile. This gives the teased some time to stew in his own erotic imagination. It is the female gender that has an advantage when it comes to teasing because of her curves and points and sensual hair, not to mention a little subtle licking of her luscious lips. Also, is the fact that men are so much more easily aroused by visual stimuli than women (so they say). She may at this point covertly remove her bra to make her points more obvious to the tease victim. She may even tease her nipples to get them erect for him when he is not looking. She may give him a stern look and ask "what are you looking at?" when she catches him ogling her perky breasts. He becomes embarrassed and a flush appears on his face. Score! You got his blood up now! Perv! she says as she reaches out and pinches his nipple a little too hard, and retreats to a safe out of arms reach distance. This is the perfect time to turn your curvatious ass to his visual field with a slightly obvious flair. Is that something in your pocket, or are you just glad to see me? - A verbal tease is just as effective as the visual one. Aww, she says, did I hurt your little nipple? as she hugs and kisses her partner. Here is where you might brush his junk with your leg or hip. Time to retreat again to maintain the tease effect. It is the promise and withdrawal that gives the real tease effect. Slow removal of clothing, brief groping, and suggestive caresses will progress the teasing to a little higher level. She may employ some tongue action in and around his ears, but not too much. Repeat the promise and deny method as clothes fall off and you are now qualified in performing sexual teasing pleasures!

strip poker ideas for wins

   Strip poker seems to be one of nearly everyone's favorite when it comes to erotic games. The rules are easy and it takes little effort to employ. What most people look for is help with ideas for what the winner of the game gets from the loser. But let's review the game rules first. To begin, you must both agree on what form of poker to play; and maintain that chosen game throughout the strip poker session. Are deuces wild? Five card or seven card stud? How many cards may be drawn at your turn? How many pieces of clothing will each player start with? The loser of each hand is required to remove one article of clothing. Which piece of clothing must be removed is dictated by the hand winner. This aspect can be taken advantage of by specifying an undergarment be removed even before an outer garment is lost. Thus, for example, a male winner can compel his hand loser to remove a bra, but the loser must first get her blouse off to remove the bra. Then she can put her blouse back on. (No cheating allowed here with unlatching under the blouse and pulling the shoulder straps through the sleeves!) Titillating! Add a little wolf whistle and cheering during this activity for fun. The winner of the game, of course, is the partner who is not first to loose all of their clothes. And now, some ideas on what the winner can designate as their winnings. How about the loser serving one whole month as the winners' sex slave? Maybe the winner can designate the loser must submit to a new and as yet un-tried sexual activity once every Saturday for two weeks. What un-tried activities? Consider g-spot squirting orgasms, employing sex-toys for multiple orgasms, researching new positions for intercourse, role-playing with guided activities, back-door play with anal beads or dildos, fun-hearted humiliation such as spanking, begging, and compelled masturbation, the winner acting as a dominator or dominatrix, or try your hand at some fun bondage. You could declare the fun to be delayed until your new sex-swing or other sexual prop is delivered for novel fun. The winner has the option to win any two amorous activities chosen from viewing a xxx adult movie or read from an adult novel. With that in mind, how about compelling the loser to play-act that he or she is a porn star and the winner is the movie director?

free sexual favor coupon ideas

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day of pampering bet

   What a great mutual wager! Play a game, cards, dice, cut the cards, or any other bet to see which of you gets a day of pampering. The loser of this bet would do well to know a lot about their partner's likes and go the extra mile to provide things like: favorite meal, favorite drink, favorite movie, etc. A pre-pampering task should be attached to this bet. Take a little time to do workshop #1 together so that the loser may be better informed about what the winner likes.

sexy clothes for your wife on her birthday

   This search phrase makes us wonder just who this birthday gift is really for. If the author of this phrase is thinking of teddies or other lingerie he should rethink his idea. Get her some nice jewelry for her birthday and  request "sexy clothes for your wife" on your birthday! There is one way to get away with this idea though: buy her that bling and some sexy lingerie.

ideas for teasing your wife

   One definition of "tease" is: : "A preliminary remark or action intended to whet the curiosity." Thus, your plan of attack for teasing your wife would be to say and/or do things that cause her to think or fantasize about sex! How you can successfully tease a female is quite different from how a female can tease a male. So forget about trying a "promise then deny" tactic, and don't even consider flashing your charms. She has charms, you have junk! A more subtle approach is necessary to get most women properly "teased". Start with a sincere compliment to her concerning her looks. Make these compliments in such a way as to imply that what you are complimenting her on is affecting you in a physical way, but stay away from crass statements such as "That fine ass of yours is giving me some serious wood!" Tell her about a fictitious magazine article to get her sexual imagination going such as " I read an article the other day in a health magazine. Some drug company that makes female aphrodisiacs did a study. They monitored women's brains with an MRI as they attempted multiple orgasms. The control group (no aphrodisiacs) averaged only a few orgasms in an hours' time whereas the women that took the compound averaged 50-plus orgasms in an hour. What do you think of that?" That was just an example and you should use your own imagination to introduce titillating anecdotes. Your physical attempts at teasing should be subtle as well. Offer your lady a nice foot rub and make it as erotic as you possibly can. Sneak up behind her and start a shoulder, neck, and scalp massage. While you are there you can cozy-up with some subtle crotch-to-rump contact. And don't pass up an opportunity to give a quick ear-nibble. Somewhere along your teasing she may ask what you are up to. An honest "I felt like teasing you" answer should have a good effect as well. Don't pass up a chance to ask her if she remembers the time we---(recall an especially erotic encounter with her). Or ask her if the two of you could sometime try out some risky sex like daylight outdoors or in the car; somewhere where there is a risk of being discovered. If any of these tease tactics works on her and she responds in an amorous way you can then pretend not to respond or cause a diversion for a further tease effect. Some women have a super-response to kissing on her neck; give it a try. Tell her that you sometimes fantasize about her going about your household topless. Yea-Baby!

kinky bet loser has to

   OK, you and your partner have placed a bet on who looses the bet and must perform or submit to some sort of kinky task or scenario. The person who found www.kissoftheromantic.com with this search phrase seems to want a list of ideas for kinky activities that the loser must perform or submit to.

   Kinky is defined as:  "Showing or appealing to bizarre or deviant tastes, especially of a sexual or erotic nature." Here is a list of suggestions for your perusal.

Foot action such as kissing, sucking, licking and using the bet winner's feet as sex organs.

Bondage and teasing. The winner can bind the loser's hands and feet to restrict the loser's movement and will. Now the bet winner can tease the tied-up loser in a physical and visual and verbal manner. Tickling, mild pinching, caress and deny, taunting with sexy actions and words will put the tease on your tied-up bet loser.

Sex toy action. This kinky sort of fun is limited only by the number of toys in your arsenal and your imagination. Go to our "Spice Is Nice" page to find quality and secure adult toy stores.

Spanking. The bet winner can choose to spank the loser or get spanked if that is what you like. Careful not to cause real physical harm.

Extreme role-playing. The bet winner can choose who plays what character and how they will perform. Dom and submissive is a favorite scenario. Other specific characters are a matter of personal preference. These can be Doctor/Nurse and patient, Pirate and victim, Cop and citizen, Cheerleader and fan -- etc.

Hair-pulling, nipple clamps, cock rings, automatic masturbators, fucking machines, sex swings and sex furniture, mirrors on the ceiling and hand-held mirrors, prostate massagers, vibrating panties, sex in a public place, candle-wax mock torture; all to be included in the kinky category.

Water sports and back door fun. These are necessarily companion activities because a clean ass is a more fun ass. Enemas are something you should take the time to read some do's and don'ts about. Water temperature and the amount of water used are important details that you should be informed of. Once clean, a good lubrication (water-based) is an absolute must and start out slow! Do some reading on how a man may achieve multiple body orgasms.

When you place your kinky bet, be sure to phrase it so that if you win you can invoke any or all of the kinky items on this list.   

how to be sexy around your partner

   Putting forward a sexy demeanor takes more than just how you act when in the presence of your partner. Although your self-confidence does figure prominently in how sexy you are perceived. Other factors to consider are: good grooming, attitude (are you pleasant to be around?), your ability to communicate in an intimate manner, how you dress, and most importantly, the love you feel and display for your significant other. Are you thoughtful of him or her in that you know most of the time how to please with gestures and gifts? Do you listen when spoken to? Do you engage your sweetie with fun bantering, lively conversation, and touching? Beyond all that there are techniques to employ when you wish to turn up the heat a little bit. Announce your need to have a big hug, and while you are there you can kiss and run your fingers through his or her hair. Add some neck nibbles and give an extra squeeze. Mention how incredibly sexy he or she was the last time you shared a sexual encounter. Make good eye contact as you say this. Now smile and give a suggestive buns-squeeze. In short, paying attention to and complementing when appropriate just might get you lucky today.

wager for a sexy picture

   Do an easy paper-rocks-scissors to determine the winner of: Winner breaks out the camera and tripod, directs the loser to pose and dress (or undress) as he or she wishes, and takes a series of digital photos. Later, the photos are viewed and a favorite is chosen. This image is printed 8.5 x 11 and framed. This framed photo is now prominently displayed in the bedroom only when the winner wishes to hint at an erotic encounter!

how to give your wife a romantic massage

   We first direct you to our sidebar page: Romantic massage. Gentle is best, unless you have studied the subject at length. Find a good massage oil (we recommend lavender ), warm the bottle by placing it in a large glass of very warm water for at least 15 minutes before the massage is to begin. Be generous with the oil to make the experience more erotic. Start your massage on his or her front side so that the back-side is last. The back massage is the more relaxing and enjoyable.

how does motion lotion affect a man s nipples

   Most men have very sensitive nipples. This is because they generally don't get a lot of attention, and when they do it can be quite intense. You will need to communicate your intention to stimulate them at first attempt and tell him to "man-up" because you have a special treatment in store for him. Motion lotion or water-based lubricant applied to the male nipples will at first ease the intensity for him because dry fingers are more abrasive. His nipples will require some toughening-up before dry fingers can be used to any extent. Once you get him nipple erect you can tell him that there is a direct connection between his nipples and his prostate. Direct him to pull his knees up close to his chest (either sitting or lying on his side), pull his scrotum forward so as not to squeeze them between his legs, and relax as you administer your lubricated nipple caress from behind. He should soon begin to feel his prostate engorge and throb against the walls of his rectum. Now direct him to gently rock his pelvis forward and back and ask him if he can feel his pubococcygeal muscle begin to tighten up and extend up his penis. Now direct him to use that muscle to rub against his prostate as he gently rocks his pelvis forward and back. He will be quite surprised at the new pleasures he will experience and with practice he should be able to eventually achieve a "body" orgasm with this method. What is a male body orgasm you ask? I guess you will have to achieve one to know one!

sexy and romantic videos

   We found a few youtube videos you might enjoy.

Best Love Songs Of All Time Pt.1

How To Kiss A Guy - 8 Ways to be a Great Kisser

Vibrators360.com - More Romantic and Erotic Vibrators and Sex Toys.

Laura Marling - New Romantic

Words to help you get that hot date!

Romantic & Sexy Saxophone Song

flamenco romantic song

Sex Talk with Auntie Nika - Sexy Gift Ideas

Clark and Lana kiss scenes.

Guitar instrumental video

How to Encourage Your Partner to be More Romantic - Dr. Sheri Meyers

how to get your girlfriend to play strip poker

   For starters, you can suggest to your sweetie that each of you can have one day each week to choose what the two of you will do that day. If she agrees without restriction, you can simply declare strip poker on your day. If you feel you must talk her into a session of strip poker then list reasons why you should. 1.Don't you want to keep our intimate times exciting and new? 2. Wouldn't it be fun, especially if you win? 3.It'll be good for us as a couple-you horny vixen. 4.If she resists you can always give the pouty lip look and hope that you planted a seed for later compliance.

sexy ideas to titillate my boyfriend

   What a lucky guy to have his lady want  sexy ideas to titillate! Titillate: "to arouse, tease, interest, or excite pleasurably and often superficially". A wry grin often accompanies the sexy idea. Titillating activities can include: Caress your own breasts with eye contact, tease your nipples, give a nipple peek, shake your ass at him, brush up against his junk, suck on his finger(s), blow gently in his ear, grab his buns and caress while grinding in front, rubbing your mound, light a candle, pour a glass of wine to share, put on a teddy or costume, give a pampering coupon, suck on his ear-lobe, lightly pinch his nipples, give an oil-drenched foot massage, put a collar around his neck to establish your intent to dominate, give a kiss and surprise with a little tongue. A strip-tease is always arousing, or tease his junk with light finger-nail scratches on denim. The possibilities are endless!

top 10 kinky bets to make with your girlfriend

   Of course for every bet a guy makes with his girl a counter bet is made by her. The guy will only get his choice of kinky winnings from this list if he wins the bet.   Not everyone will agree with the sequence of the following list but here it is anyway...

10. If I win cut the cards you must tease me by teasing yourself before culminating in great head!

9. If I win paper-rock-scissors (2 out of 3) I get a lap dance complete with use of toys, then make my toes all curl up.

8. Both partners will play a game of solitaire. The winner is who gets the most cards at the top. If he is the kinky winner she must give the winner a full body massage (with occasional tongue licks), in a naked condition, armed with candles, sexy music, warm massage oil, wine or favorite drink, and a mindset of giving maximum pleasure!

7. Flip a coin to determine a winner. If the male partner wins he gets a kinky spanking session along with his choice of two new Kama-sutra intercourse positions.

6. Each partner takes a turn throwing a dice. If both throw a three or less, the guy is the winner. If both throw a four or greater, the female is the winner. If none of the above throws are a match, start over with the game until a match is made. If the guy wins, a kinky prostate massage and bj are his winnings. She is naked for this kinky fun.

5. Play a game of strip poker. The first player who is completely naked is the submissive sex slave for the remainder of the day.

4. Play a game of strip-spin-the-bottle to determine the winner (last to be partially clothed). If the guy wins, she must submit to his choice of role-playing.

3. Cut the cards, highest card wins his or hers choice or choices of foreplay activities. Then loser does all the work on top.

2. Pick a sports game soon to be broadcast and choose teams. If his team wins the game (football, basketball, hockey, soccer etc) she must first pamper (his choice) and then shag her man.

1. Use your magic 8-ball genie to determine the winner of this wager. If he wins the bet with the first "yes" he is the dom and she is the sub in a kinky role-playing evening.

me and my girlfriend want to play a fun sex game tonight

   Wow, there are so many choices to fulfill this desire. You could buy the Sex Game Devil Bundle, or Night Party, or Juliet Sex Session. Also you could play one of our Ten Fun Romantic Games.

ideas for sexy candle light dinner at home

   A list is in order for this query. Choose whichever ideas appeals to you most. Just remember that romance is in the details and sexy can only come from you.

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