MAINTAIN YOUR ROMANCE
Your romance is
always in need of maintenance. A pleasant, loving, and supportive
attitude is your best foundation for this purpose. Engaging your
partner with conversation, dates, private activities, compliments,
time spent together, and thoughtful gestures and gifts are good
things you need to practice. But the good news is that if you are
reading this then you already have the right attitude. You are
living the love that you feel. You are seeking ideas and information
to assist in maintaining your romance with your loved one. Much of
what you need to do in order for you to keep a romantic atmosphere
in your home is common sense. But it cannot hurt to list them. So
here we go!
WHAT SHE LIKES
Men, there is
something about you that your wife/girlfriend likes. Can you guess
what those things are? Would you be surprised to learn that your
looks are not at the top of this list? Maybe you are surprised at
this, and maybe not. The truth is it is your confidence and passion
for something that attracts her. She likes what she sees in your
eyes. She likes a man that is supportive and helps with the chores.
She really likes a man that is sensitive and vulnerable and fun to
have around. She does not like a man who is ego-centric and cocky
and especially not mean and overbearing. She wants to be an equal
partner with you. Women require heart-felt compliments. She may even
like the way your butt looks if you are keeping it in shape! Some
things women like cannot be generalized. One may prefer to be
totally dependent while the next may like to take charge
occasionally. You men need to pay attention (and sometimes read
between the lines) to really know who it is that you have chosen to
partner with.
WHAT HE LIKES
Men are visual
creatures. They like to see her hair and makeup in place. Men are
captivated by femininity. To men, women are mysterious creatures
which evoke an instinct to protect. A women’s’ grace and smell and
shapely curves and how they delight in being cherished inspire a
man’s desire to be close to them. Men are in great need of
reassurance that they are loved. They like to be touched, caressed,
and teased. These things assure him that he is still desired.
Whether women like this or not, it cannot be denied that a man needs
to be taken care of. Then of course there is sex. Men like it when
their partner is comfortable with her sexuality. Men need to be
guided in the bedroom to ensure a fulfilled and satisfied female
partner. He probably knows most of the moves but only you know what
your special things are. Men much desire to know what those things
are.
MAINTAIN AN ENGAGING INTEREST
Look into your
romantic partner’s eyes when you speak to him/her. Caress his/her
cheek when you tell him or her that you love them. Go on dates often
to get out of the house and share unique times together.
Live the love that you
feel and you can’t go wrong.
Keep the lines of communication open by sharing your thoughts
instead of keeping them to yourself. Also, strive to evolve your sex
life together so that boredom does not set in.