MAINTAIN YOUR ROMANCE

   Your romance is always in need of maintenance. A pleasant, loving, and supportive attitude is your best foundation for this purpose. Engaging your partner with conversation, dates, private activities, compliments, time spent together, and thoughtful gestures and gifts are good things you need to practice. But the good news is that if you are reading this then you already have the right attitude. You are living the love that you feel. You are seeking ideas and information to assist in maintaining your romance with your loved one. Much of what you need to do in order for you to keep a romantic atmosphere in your home is common sense. But it cannot hurt to list them. So here we go!

WHAT SHE LIKES

   Men, there is something about you that your wife/girlfriend likes. Can you guess what those things are? Would you be surprised to learn that your looks are not at the top of this list? Maybe you are surprised at this, and maybe not. The truth is it is your confidence and passion for something that attracts her. She likes what she sees in your eyes. She likes a man that is supportive and helps with the chores. She really likes a man that is sensitive and vulnerable and fun to have around. She does not like a man who is ego-centric and cocky and especially not mean and overbearing. She wants to be an equal partner with you. Women require heart-felt compliments. She may even like the way your butt looks if you are keeping it in shape! Some things women like cannot be generalized. One may prefer to be totally dependent while the next may like to take charge occasionally. You men need to pay attention (and sometimes read between the lines) to really know who it is that you have chosen to partner with.

WHAT HE LIKES

   Men are visual creatures. They like to see her hair and makeup in place. Men are captivated by femininity. To men, women are mysterious creatures which evoke an instinct to protect. A women’s’ grace and smell and shapely curves and how they delight in being cherished inspire a man’s desire to be close to them. Men are in great need of reassurance that they are loved. They like to be touched, caressed, and teased. These things assure him that he is still desired. Whether women like this or not, it cannot be denied that a man needs to be taken care of. Then of course there is sex. Men like it when their partner is comfortable with her sexuality. Men need to be guided in the bedroom to ensure a fulfilled and satisfied female partner. He probably knows most of the moves but only you know what your special things are. Men much desire to know what those things are.

MAINTAIN AN ENGAGING INTEREST

   Look into your romantic partner’s eyes when you speak to him/her. Caress his/her cheek when you tell him or her that you love them. Go on dates often to get out of the house and share unique times together. Live the love that you feel and you can’t go wrong. Keep the lines of communication open by sharing your thoughts instead of keeping them to yourself. Also, strive to evolve your sex life together so that boredom does not set in.